08 Dec The Face It® Movement Releases Ten Child Safety Tips To Help Caregivers During the Holiday Season and Beyond
(Louisville, KY, December 5, 2016) – The 2016 holiday season is well underway, and as families gather to celebrate and spend time together, Face It® has released tips for family, friends, neighbors, and the broader community to keep kids safe. Everyone can play a role in keeping kids safe, including preventing abuse and avoiding unsafe situations that can result from excessive alcohol, overly stressed parents, and children’s contact with extended family and friends. The holidays can be stressful for many reasons.
Here are ten helpful tips to share with friends and family about child safety.
- Talking to other adults about child abuse can be awkward, but it also helps build awareness and influence others’ choices about safety. When shopping or visiting with friends and family who are also parents, it’s reasonable to ask how they ensure their children are safe from harm when being cared for by other adults and talk about choosing safe caregivers.
- Holidays bring many gatherings that can be busy and full of people, often family and friends. Ensure your child knows to be aware of anyone who asks them to keep a secret and knows the difference between “ok” and “not ok” touches, even when you trust the people they spend time with.
- Meeting and greeting your neighbors and maintaining relationships with family and friends can ensure parents in your community don’t feel isolated and allow them an opportunity to ask for help when they need it. Supportive communities can be especially helpful when holiday stress gets overwhelming.
- Offering to watch the children of your friends, family, and neighbors is so helpful when they need a break or seem frustrated. Holidays often mean more errands and frequent visits to stores. A small child in tow on these errands can add additional stress to a situation, leaving a parent or caregiver vulnerable to reacting to frustrating child behaviors with physical punishment or other ineffective discipline.
- Children learn good boundaries by watching the adults around them and figure out what is comfortable for them. Ask a child if they want a hug or want a family member to hold them, and respect what the child says. Never force your child to hug or kiss a friend or relative if your child is reluctant.
- When disciplining a child, remember that hitting and other kinds of physical punishment doesn’t. Instead, use redirection, positive reinforcement, and time-outs to address inappropriate behaviors.
- Remember, crying is normal for babies any time of year. If you feel frustrated with your child, it’s okay to leave the baby in a crib or safe place while you take some deep breaths and calm down.
- Teamwork is the gift that can help to renew patience. If you know another parent who may need a hand, offer to help out and reduce that parent’s stress.
- Stick to your routines as much as possible. The holidays can mean traveling, overnight stays, and interrupted schedules. For younger children, familiarity and extra time spent explaining “what’s next” can help prevent tantrums. If a bedtime story is a nightly routine, try to keep that routine in place. If they are spending the night in a new place, prepare them as much as possible by talking it through and inviting questions in advance.
- Parenting is hard, and sometimes friends and family members with good intentions can make it even harder. If a family member offers unsolicited advice or makes a negative comment, remember that you know what is best for your child. You can ignore the comment or ask that they withhold their advice.
“Many parents are told what not to do when it comes to parenting,” said Dr. Melissa Currie, MD, FAAP, the Professor and Medical Director and Chief of the Kosair Charities® Division of Pediatric Forensic Medicine at the University of Louisville. “The holidays are a great time to remind parents and caregivers the positive steps you can take, such as reading to their child, watching holiday shows together, or just taking the time to cuddle. These positive steps can help reduce negative behaviors and parental stress, and they help build memories that can last a lifetime. As for safety, knowing how to keep kids safe is an adult responsibility, even those who see children only a few times a year.”
To learn more about how you can be the face that ends child abuse, visit the Face It® website for more ideas.
About the Face It® Movement: The Face It® Movement, conceived and created in 2012 as a response to the public outcry against the increasing number of child abuse deaths in the Commonwealth, officially launched in April 2013 as an initiative led by Kosair Charities. Face It directly addresses the unacceptable incidences of child abuse and neglect in Kentucky with the promotion of best practices in child abuse prevention and intervention, engaging the community, and advocating for effective policies to improve the child welfare system. For further information visit faceitabuse.org. Socially, Facebook: www.facebook.com/faceitabuse, Twitter: twitter.com/faceitabuse.